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[berryclain]

Me and my girlfriend had a quarrel and we ended in a fight and now she wants a break to think . I have been dating this girl for 8 months now . we live together but on Sunday she lied to me that she was going to visit her sister . But i later discovered that she went out that night with her friends and they spend the whole night drinking . when she returned homed with had a little quarrel and i ended up beating her . I had once promised never to beat her again and i really regret my action . I tried to beg her and i thought everything was fine . yesterday i life her home but on my return she had back some of her dresses and shoes and disappear , i called her phone and she told me she need a break to think about her life and that she is afraid is she returns i will beat her again .She told me she was going to go out clubbing the whole night and that she will return when she fills comfortable . Now am confuse and i really love her . we have been talking only via phone . please help me on what to do. today she came home to visit me and see how i was doing . I cried and beg her it will never happen again . i even opted we go sign an undertaking at the police that it will never happen again . she felt sorry for me and said it's ok . we spend about 2 hours together and we made sex . she left that she will be coming back but she has not return . I cant do anything now because ive hurt the girl i love . please help me

[Blink182]

You should be arrested for assaulting your girlfriend. I hope she doesn't go back to you. You are an abuser who belongs behind bars. If you want help, seek therapy and turn your life around.

[Wildcat18]

Blink182 stfu! Alright man, She just needs time to think about stuff she will probelly come back if she loves you just try to take it easy with your emotions. Sometime things happen we all regret and forgiveness will come eventually.