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[joan.pierce1284]

Its Wednesday, and I am 15, about to be 16, and i have been dating a guy for 9 1/2 months he jsut turned 16 in december, well he broke up with me a day after valentines day, like everything was fine then out of the blue, were done.? Said he didn't feel it? he told me that he had been pushed away over time. we saw each other pretty much every day, we got into small arguements alot, nothing big. but he told me he needed time and space, and i didn't give it to him,i blew up his phone, worried, until saturday, i didnt talk to him the whole day, and then asked if we could hang out all day sunday, to see if he misses me, so when i went over there sunday, well he acted like he was happy, asked me for hugs, and kisses, and to cuddle with him, also asked me if i had been talking to any other guys, and asked to look at my phone, and all. i was over there from like 12, to 5, and when i left, he told me that he just thinks this was the end of us. & i don't understand, i mean i told him i would change, my moods and B****iness i have, and all, cause i realized i was in the wrong, cause you realize something after its gone, you realize what you had, and i did, i have been tore up into pieces. So him telling me that still wasn't good enough, i told him to come hang out with me the next day, (monday/2 days ago) and try again, well we didnt hang out for like 25 minutes, and he told me that he doesn't know what he watns, that i haven't really gave him time or space. So i told him that i was sorry, that i ould leave him alone, that he could talk to me when he wanted, if he felt the need for it, and he said "what if i dont wanna talk to you?" and i said, "well dont then, but let me know something by the end of the week" and he said ok. but he got his license yesterday/tuesday, and im so upset, im just wanting to know so bad, if i actually give him time, if he will miss me? :,( we did so much together. I'm thinking, what if i give him the space he wanted to begin with? Not text, call, talk or anything to him, until he comes to me first? if he does? anyone think he will realize? </3 And i know for a fact that there wasnt another girl behind this, cause i had his password to everything, and was with him pretty much everyday. I'm just feeling like, since he has his car now, school, and friends, that he wont even thinkabout me anymore? I just need to know soomething & also, whoever responds back to this with real, great advice,can you add me to your contacts, so i can email you back and forth? Cause i don't know how to reply back on here after i post this and then read your advice. Thanks! & we were completely in love.

[Wildcat18]

Its sound like hes just frustrated with stuff he needs about a month and then you can go talk to him and find out whats going on i can see you really care about this guy and i gess im kindof like ur bf i dumped my gf a couple weeks before i got my license and told her i just needed time and it was about a month that i relized i needed her soo i went back and got her and were still dateing today!

[sarahelizabethmary]

He sounds like he wants to be young while he's still a kid. And its all good that another girl wasn't behind this and you know because you had his passwords and you were checking his accounts, that might of scared him off because checking his accounts isn't giving him any space, freedom or trust! But if you do want him back, leave him completely alone, give him more space, after a week of you completely ignoring him he will definitely come running back if you two were completely in love, I promise. And definitely stop logging into his accounts!